Do not try and bend the spoon. That’s impossible. Instead… only try to realize the truth.
What truth?
There is no spoon.
There is no spoon?
Then you’ll see, that it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself.
What truth?
There is no spoon.
There is no spoon?
Then you’ll see, that it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself.